Magical in the Mundane Series: Samhain

Samhain is the season of reflection, honor, and reverence.  Pagans and Witches take this time of year to accept the past, to honor the ancestors, and to look inward to discover what they really want.  It’s also the time of year to get closer to family and friends.

Household

  • Clean out the house.  Donate old furniture, clothing, and house goods to charity
  • Frame photographs of family members
  • Pull out a few old family recipes, favorites from when you were a kid
  • Go to the cemetery to clean family members’ graves and to plant bulbs
  • Winterize your outdoor spaces and bring in potted plants

Self Care

  • Break an unhealthy habit, such as smoking
  • If your doctor says its cool, consider doing a detox (people with liver conditions or other serious medical ailments can’t do this activity).  Some are super crazy and unhealthy (plus who wants to just drink lemon-chili water for a week?!), but the Vegetarian Times has a lovely weekend detox designed to safely eliminate toxins from the body
  • Indulge in an extra bath or two to cultivate serenity and peace of mind as you reflect on your life.  Make them super luxurious by infusing equal parts rose petals and calendula in a large pot of water.  Let steep for at least a half hour, strain, then add the tea plus a gallon of whole milk into a warm bath.  Throw in a hand full of bath salts to scent the water and soak as long as you like
  • Start a journal or similar reflective activity
  • If you feel you need a little extra help or get a little overwhelmed as you look on your past, talk to a mental health professional.  If you’re a university student, you can get free services through your school.  Otherwise, Psychology Today’s Find a Therapist is an exceptional resource.  If money is the problem or your troubles seem more spiritual in nature, the Witch’s Voice can connect you to priests and priestesses with counseling credentials.

Work and School

  • Have a meeting with your academic advisor or boss about your goals and future in your field
  • Do some internal evaluations to figure out any problems in your department.  A simple, anonymous survey given to each of your coworkers will do nicely. If you’re a manager or supervisor, take your workers suggestions seriously and make small changes if needed
  • Usually for university students, professor and course evaluations will be in the coming weeks.  Take them seriously and honestly, even if the class is terrible.  They are the best way for students to make changes in their colleges, because they affect how the courses are taught and what professors get tenure
  • Clean out and reorganize your desk
  • If you’re feeling a little stagnant in your job or are looking for a change, start looking at job postings and revise your resume

Social Life

  • Unfriend or block exes and toxic friends on Facebook and other forms of social media
  • Treat your parents or sibling to dinner
  • If you’ve argued with a friend this year, sit down with them and resolve the conflict over drinks
  • Do something joyful such as pumpkin picking or attending a corn maze with your partner and, if you have them, children to balance some of the heaviness of the season
  • Do a little genealogical research to discover your ancestors

© Ariadne Woods

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Magical in the Mundane Series: Waxing Moon

The Waxing Moon is a time marked by growth and development.  I mark it from the day after I spot a new crescent to two days before the Full Moon.  Generally it’s a good time to start new projects and develop good habits.  It’s partially psychological, partially energetic.  As the Goddess grows, so does your success in all of your endeavors.

Household

  • Complete a few small house repairs (creaky stairs, paint crown molding, etc.)
  • Incorporate a few new recipes into your repertoire with lots of nourishing herbs, fruits, and veggies
  • Start a piggy bank or open a savings account

Self Care

  • Cut your hair if you want it to grow
  • Spend some time working on your mind, which is just as important as your physical health. Go to a museum, lecture, or gallery; do some Sudoku or crossword puzzles; get a few new books from the library.
  • Have a beauty evening.  I like to get in the tub with a face mask and a glass of beer, but do whatever makes you feel good.

Work and School

  • Keep on top of all projects and homework
  • Take a client or coworker to lunch to cultivate a strong working relationship
  • Attend any professional development courses or extra university lectures

Social Life

  • Go to drinks or go to a coffee shop with friends
  • Have a date night with your partner or spouse.  If you have children, try to get home after they’ve gone to bed so nothing can keep you from romantic moments
  • Visit your parents/grandparents or send them a care package.

© Ariadne Woods

Magical in the Mundane Series: Mabon

Sabats are seasons.  They are more than just a singular day, but rather the culmination of an entire spiritual and natural era.  It’s like a switch goes off and suddenly your in Mabon mode.  For me, I know I am in Mabon’s season because I want to buy mums and drink pumpkin beer.  All year long I will be practicing exactly what I’ve been preaching–fusing elements of the spiritual seasons into everyday activities–and sharing some suggestions based on my experiences.

Mabon is otherwise known as the Witch’s Thanksgiving.  It is a time of preparation and gratefulness.  Here are a few ideas to bring that energy into everyday life.

Household

  • Harvest the remainder of your crops and take potted plants into the house
  • Take extra cans and nonperishables to the local food pantry
  • Board up holes to avoid pest infestation
  • Make applesauce and cider to enjoy all winter long
  • Turn off air conditioners and store window units for next summer

Personal Care

  • Take coats, hats, scarves, boots, and sweaters out of storage
  • Begin any regime to avoid the winter blues or Seasonal Affective Disorder. Yoga, sun lamps, and time outside work well for mild cases; see a doctor in moderate to severe cases
  • If you’re super DIY, make a big batch of body or hand cream 
  • Stock up on cold and flu remedies, including your flu vaccine
  • Enjoy including fall fruits and veggies, such as apples and squash, into meals

Work and School

  • Take off work for Samhain
  • Stock up on school supplies and make any necessary upgrades to your computers and devices
  • Plan a charitable event hosted by your company or campus organization
  • Make a list of dormant projects to keep track of your workload
  • Start a project to make your work life easier.  For example, I work in a historical society and we are putting environmental monitoring devices in every room to make sure the objects are in optimal conditions.  After its installed, I will check these devices every week to check for problems.  This action will prevent deterioration and damage to the collections

Social Life

  • Go apple picking with your family or friends
  • Host or attend a bonfire with plenty of warm cider and seasonal beers
  • Volunteer at a local park to help clean up trash
  • Take a drive with a crush or significant other to see the changing leaves
  • Sign up for a class, whether to expand the mind, learn a new skill, or to make friends

© Ariadne Woods

Magical in the Mundane Series: Mabon

Sabats are seasons.  They are more than just a singular day, but rather the culmination of an entire spiritual and natural era.  It’s like a switch goes off and suddenly your in Mabon mode.  For me, I know I am in Mabon’s season because I want to buy mums and drink pumpkin beer.  All year long I will be practicing exactly what I’ve been preaching–fusing elements of the spiritual seasons into everyday activities–and sharing some suggestions based on my experiences.

Mabon is otherwise known as the Witch’s Thanksgiving.  It is a time of preparation and gratefulness.  Here are a few ideas to bring that energy into everyday life.

Household

  • Harvest the remainder of your crops and take potted plants into the house
  • Take extra cans and nonperishables to the local food pantry
  • Board up holes to avoid pest infestation
  • Make applesauce and cider to enjoy all winter long
  • Turn off air conditioners and store window units for next summer

Personal Care

  • Take coats, hats, scarves, boots, and sweaters out of storage
  • Begin any regime to avoid the winter blues or Seasonal Affective Disorder. Yoga, sun lamps, and time outside work well for mild cases; see a doctor in moderate to severe cases
  • If you’re super DIY, make a big batch of body or hand cream 
  • Stock up on cold and flu remedies, including your flu vaccine
  • Enjoy including fall fruits and veggies, such as apples and squash, into meals

Work and School

  • Take off work for Samhain
  • Stock up on school supplies and make any necessary upgrades to your computers and devices
  • Plan a charitable event hosted by your company or campus organization
  • Make a list of dormant projects to keep track of your workload
  • Start a project to make your work life easier.  For example, I work in a historical society and we are putting environmental monitoring devices in every room to make sure the objects are in optimal conditions.  After its installed, I will check these devices every week to check for problems.  This action will prevent deterioration and damage to the collections

Social Life

  • Go apple picking with your family or friends
  • Host or attend a bonfire with plenty of warm cider and seasonal beers
  • Volunteer at a local park to help clean up trash
  • Take a drive with a crush or significant other to see the changing leaves
  • Sign up for a class, whether to expand the mind, learn a new skill, or to make friends

© Ariadne Woods

Magical in the Mundane Series: New Moon

There’s a lot of talk within the Pagan and Witch community about living a magical life.  This means bringing elements of spirituality into everyday activities.  In my practice, I like to coordinate different tasks to the moon phase.  Obviously this isn’t always practical or feasible, but it does bring a little bit of oomph into everyday life.

The New Moon, which I celebrate from the last day of the Dark Moon to the first night I see the Moon reappear in the sky, is a great time to start new projects or to set the metaphorical reset button.  Here is a breakdown of example of activities I like to coordinate with the New Moon.

Household

  • Change your sheets
  • Paint or hang new pictures or curtains
  • Plant crops or buy new house plants

Personal Care

  • Cut your hair, if you want to try a new style
  • Start a new diet or exercise regimen
  • Switch out contacts, razors, and toothbrush

Work and School

  • Propose a new initiative or policy
  • Start a research project, thesis, or dissertation
  • Begin professional correspondence with a new client

Social Life

  • Try a new hobby or activity
  • Ask a crush on a date
  • Go to dinner with a recent acquaintance

The common theme between all of these activities is beginning and newness.  Anything you want to grow, start it at the New Moon.  As you watch the Moon wax, you’ll be more inclined to continue your plans successfully.

© Ariadne Woods